Monday, January 29, 2007

Disclosure

From the comments on the last two blogs, I figure I should inform those unaware of what is happening in our lives. Tres called me on Christmas Eve letting me know he no longer wanted to be married. He flew into Charleston, WV, on Dec. 26, and despite counseling, prayers, and friend's advice he stuck with his decision. A few days later, I was served divorce papers. The reason for this decision is still a question to me. He returned to California in less than two weeks after all this began. I can only assume someone or something is in California from his urgent actions, including the divorce and splitting the money. He has no contact with me unless it is about financial matters. This is as much a surprise and shock to me as it is to any of you learning about this for the first time. There are no reasons I can give you because he has given me none except he is not happy and never loved me. He truly deserves an Oscar for 3 1/2 years of excellent acting.

14 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

you can't fake love that much. he must have something wrong with him.

7:16 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I know Tres is an actor and has performed in the Wizard of Oz. Tres is certainly the Tin Man, HEARTLESS. He also is like the Scarcrow without a BRAIN. Don't forget is his most important similarity, the COWARDLY Lion.

Amanda, you are better off without him. He obviously has problems and you need not to be a part of it.

9:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is he gay?

3:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I would say more of a switch hitter than gay.

3:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

whats a switch hitter?

7:47 PM  
Blogger Unknown said...

Lou, my heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry you have to go through this. If there's anything I can do, please let me know. hint - the Florida sun is always good for some R&R!! You know you're always welcome here!! I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Love ya, Heather

2:28 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

love the new title! you are handling this whole thing like a lady and i'm really proud of you. you should keep that pretty head held high and know that you have so much to offer someone who really deserves your love. we love you and we'll always support you.
Lori, JR and TJ

7:43 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm gonna stick with the Tres being Gay!!

9:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Sure does look GAY

9:10 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Maybe he's living with Micheal Jackson in CA?

9:12 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amanda, I justed want to say how strong I think you are! Tres was just holding you back. Now is the time for you to move forward with your life! Always remember to keep God first!! I love reading your post about all the adventures you have been, and I look forward to reading all the adventures to come!! Love the Miss Bridgette!!

9:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Amanda, I"m sorry that you are having to go through this. Keep your head held high and keep your faith. If you need to get your mind on something else, i'm just across the river in St. Albans :)

Carrie

6:48 PM  
Blogger davidallenwhite said...

WTF! I was just checking in to see what's up with you lately and caught your last few blogs. Unbelievable. Email me!! would love to catch up. Come back to Atlanta and we'll go shopping! I'm pissed that you didn't even get to wear the hot red dress we found for him! I'm sorry for your pain, but know that it will pass. WTF!?!?!?!? david

12:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Excuse me for interjecting but he's such a fool. I know because despite prevailing wisdom, I find myself falling for you.
Guess I'm a fool too.
Please find and embrace happiness

9:23 AM  

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